Attraction

Why are we attracted to who we are attracted to?  Is it something from our past who made us feel comfortable, safe or sexy?  Are we wanting to feel the same, different or better?  These are the questions that should be on your mind when entering in the dating world as an adult.  Remember we are no longer children.  However, as I date, I find that I meet those who still leave in the world of a teenager when choosing mates.  Fun is one thing.  That is a time without responsibilities that you can think like a fly by night individual.  Now that I am older, I must consider all things in choosing who I even date.  I am not even talking about choosing a mate, just choosing a person to spend time with.  Where/How do you begin your process in this age of dating?